Court Orders Man To Pay Ex-Wife For The Countless Hours Of Housework She Did

Marriage is tough work. It takes a lot of effort from both parties to make a marriage safe and happy, and that takes a lot of time and energy. Sometimes it feels like nothing is going to work out, and other times you feel like it's you two against the world.

Couples often fight about the same things: kids, intimacy, money, and housework.

Housework Is On That List For A Reason: It's The Worst

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Photo Credit: Unsplash / Tracey Hocking

Housework is easily one of the things that couples fight about most. Who is going to do what? Why isn't this thing done? Why am I the one who always has to do this?

I'm sure this sounds all too familiar to you. We've all had these arguments too many times.

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There Always Seems To Be One Person Who Does More

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When it comes to dividing up housework, it seems that there is always someone who does more.

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Traditionally, it was always a woman's job to keep the house and watch the kids. But that can get frustrating. Is that really fair? Should someone be doing more work than another around the home?

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One Couple Going Through A Divorce Addressed This Question

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A recent court ruling in a divorce case stated that the ex-husband had to pay his ex-wife $8,000 for the years of unpaid labor she did looking after their house.

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It was decided by the court that she had shouldered the work of maintaining the home and raising their son.

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This Ruling Sparked A Huge Debate Online, Which Isn't Surprising

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First facebook comment: That's why men get married - having a wife is cheaper than having a maid. Second facebook comment: Shocking how women manipulate the system to take more money, if she was a stay at home wife and had the audacity to do something like that, then consider the money of mine you spent as wages. Third facebook comment: Did she actually do house work or did she just sit around on her phone all day and complain they they never go out when she was too lazy to cook
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There were a lot of people in the comments arguing that there was no way this was fair because her husband probably supported her since she wasn't working.

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Others called her lazy and that this was likely a scam.

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But There Was Also Support, Too

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first facebook comment: Sounds like her work was undervalued. second facebook comment: a wife/homemaker job is ten times harder then the husband going to work 9-5. Homemakers need to be celebrated for all the hard work and being not appreciate for all those years. Third facebook comment: What? I was short changed then! My ex stepped over a coatrack to tell me it had fallen off the wall
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Photo Credit: Facebook / Devin Barr Facebook / Mahrukh Imtiaz Facebook / Natalie Davies
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For all the people in the comments being rude, there were people who were supportive.

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A lot of people who had been through divorces or were stay-at-home parents said that this was a great idea and should be more common.